How Much is Enough?

Seth Godin's Fear of Philanthropy blog post highlights a struggle I feel on a day to day basis related to non-profit organization in my personal and professional life. We have made a commitment to be involved in ways with ANY non-profit we are affiliated with. Thus, it is hard when you work for several or sit on boards or volunteer time to determine "the line" of what is enough for each. The well is not unlimited, even though the desire to help is.

While I cannot to everything that does not excuse me from doing nothing.

Oftentimes, just as Seth states it boils down to attention (who gets it) and proximity (who happens to be around when I am receptive). This is true for foundations with millions of dollars and families asked to donate clothes, food or money to local causes.

So, how can non-profits "help" those of us who are approached to part with time, talent or treasure?

• If we have a process of giving to non-profits (SiteCrafting does) please respect that process.
• Tell us your story. We want to know how we can help and what you need, even if we are unable to fully meet those expectations
• Don't guilt it out of us. There is no joy in extortion - giving and receiving should be joyful
• If it's a volunteer opportunity make it easy for US to invite friends - if we believe in it we will be inclined to invite our friends to participate
• Understand that we are pulled in a variety of directions and our intentions are good but our attention and treasure are not limitless
• Let us know what you need and let us know what enough is (see Seth's post as a reference)
• Respect the "Sorry, we can't help at this time." If you get this ask if you can approach us later. Likely the answer will be yes.

I know I am personally in awe of the dedication of the staffs of all the non-profits I deal with. They are the MacGyvers of society. They are dedicated to making the world a better place using sweat, spit, and duct tape. I want to make it easier for them, but can only do so much for each.